The excessive indulgence of some parents leads them to think that they must be met with every personal need, otherwise they will respond with force.
The video was captured by the surveillance camera in the family room, when the man walked in from the door and then he sat down and a boy ran in from the door.
and threw sandals in his face. Then he got up and went to send the boy, maybe he wanted to teach him a lesson about what just happened.
When the video was posted on the forums, many people said that the child was so spoiled that it was the parents who were so indulgent. Naughty kids, it’s the wrong family education.
These are just some of the videos that have been shared on social media recently, causing a stir about teaching your child the wrong way, leading to the child fighting the birthplace.
So what do parents need to do to avoid the consequences of excessive child indulgence?
Change your habits to satisfy you unconditionally
When the child makes a request, you need to ask the child for a reason. If it’s reasonable, you can accommodate it. However, if it is unreasonable, you should refuse gently, but firmly.
Teach children to empathize and love
Empathy, in a simple way, is understanding the psychology and feelings of others. Empathetic children will know how to listen, not ignore the opinions of others. In the event of a
children do wrong, children behave badly, you need to describe your feelings to them, so that they understand what you have experienced, you feel. Since then, children are more empathetic, thinking about the impact from the action
his actions cause harm to others and change behavior gradually.
Don’t make yourself your “servant.”
No one follows you for a lifetime to serve you, to provide you with everything that you’ve come to expect. So, you need to encourage your kids to be independent. Don’t make yourself a nanny, take care of your child with each pair of socks, shirt, because the more they depend on you, the more conscientious they are with your care efforts.
Don’t make up your mind.
Children cannot live forever under these : their parents’ “wings”, they need to grow up, they need to stretch beyond society. You can’t worry because they stumble, you can’t worry because they’re wrong… and you decide to support them.
they have everything in life.
Let me solve my own problems, depending on my age. Parents should remind themselves, “Don’t interfere,” so that you can manage what they do.
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